Bismillah.
It's another 2 months towards becoming a wife and friend to a noble man, a daughter to new parents, sister to new siblings and life would totally change. Soon a mother.The feelings, only Allah knows. How far have I tried, my effort to become that woman who would have to deal with things. Being a wife is not being completely the only girl all the time. Yes, I realize all that.
Well, at all time we read quotes and articles about household. Some are very useful that people would use them for daily basis. Some are too optimist that they give too 'good idea' about marriage life. Husband would do that... Life would be perfect... bla3.. and some would completely critique marriage life. Husbands beat up wife.. Life would be miserable.. bla3..
The idea about marriage life is that it cycles. It's a wheel of life. Sometimes it's a miracle. It's paradise on the Earth. sometimes when it's not right then it's just not right, hell on Earth.
The idea is expectation about marriage life is destructive. Just go for it and give your all.
My effort. idk. I think i'm getting worse in all aspects. Attitude, emotional, whatever you name it. =.= Ya Allah Ya Latif. Give guidance please to this helpless slave. =.=
It's another 2 months towards becoming a wife and friend to a noble man, a daughter to new parents, sister to new siblings and life would totally change. Soon a mother.The feelings, only Allah knows. How far have I tried, my effort to become that woman who would have to deal with things. Being a wife is not being completely the only girl all the time. Yes, I realize all that.
Well, at all time we read quotes and articles about household. Some are very useful that people would use them for daily basis. Some are too optimist that they give too 'good idea' about marriage life. Husband would do that... Life would be perfect... bla3.. and some would completely critique marriage life. Husbands beat up wife.. Life would be miserable.. bla3..
The idea about marriage life is that it cycles. It's a wheel of life. Sometimes it's a miracle. It's paradise on the Earth. sometimes when it's not right then it's just not right, hell on Earth.
The idea is expectation about marriage life is destructive. Just go for it and give your all.
My effort. idk. I think i'm getting worse in all aspects. Attitude, emotional, whatever you name it. =.= Ya Allah Ya Latif. Give guidance please to this helpless slave. =.=
