Wednesday, 17 October 2012

YOU SHOULD CARE ABOUT YOUR PARENTS

Assalamualaikum.  
Bismillahirrahmanirrahim... 
Dengan Nama Allah yang Maha Pengasih lagi Maha Penyayang. 
Do you think the topic I'm 'bragging' is true? In my opinion myself. If I have 10 marks, I'll score it 100. I do agree without objections. Yes. No objections. Parents are the persons we are relying on, so there is no such word like conquering. Because they disagree for reasons. I said REASONS not REASON which shows plural for the word reason.

       For instance, you would like to follow a trip to somewhere your teacher suggests. If and only if they disagree, that might be because they are afraid you will get kidnapped and be sold to other countries, or maybe they just want to be at the place together with you and maybe because of some ridiculous excuses you might never had in your mind.

      In my situation, I do not have the strength (I just can't) say no to what my parents say. Not because they are conquering, In my dictionary, conquer has never existed. Because I like to think and think and think and imagine and I appreciate what they have done and what they are doing for me and my two younger sisters. Just if you go somewhere, observe a mother and her daughter. Observe how lovely and passionate and patient she is upon entertaining the crying-all-day, sulking, wants-everything you. Once you were a student, your art teacher directed you to buy coloured-papers and glues, and colour pastels and scissors, they will possibly get them all for you even though they were tired coming home from their office (or workplace). 

       I just cannot have the imagination getting the call saying they are no longer on earth. No longer with us. Even to get married, to be apart from them, I'll have to think twice. Because to me, my family is my priority, of course after my religion. I just wonder if you noticed, your family is your religion. Your teachers are your religion. The people around you, they are your religion. everything around you are your religion. Because if yo are well mannered enough to the communities around you, your God blesses you. And if you are well-mannered the best to your family, Allah blesses you to Jannah. How beautiful. 
   
       You cannot say you are independent to your parents. Look at you. What you are wearing, what you are eating, what you are using, what you are learning, where you are sleeping, everything, they all came from your parents' effort upon supporting your living. MasyaAllah. How wonderful. And to think again, what benefit do they have if they take care of us? Why are they taking good care of us? It is because of LOVE. Allah gave us all love which are so unique that we cannot express them in words. Even until now, I don't know whether I have listed my points to the end or not, because my parents are so unique to me. They are just the most awesome parents on earth. And you must have yours. 

       The conclusion is that you should really take a very deep breath and think again, if you get angry with your parents, recall everything they have done and what they are doing for you. Untill this point, they are trying their very best to make you feel comfortable with your living. Even if you get sick, they will bring you to the clinic and let you get the best medication so that you can get well soon. If they are incomeless, or they have 'overbudgetted' throughout the month, they will work extra hours to obtain money. 

       Your parents, they have loved and are loving you to death, to the very last piece if their skull, bones, bloods. Iin fact you are their air. You are their food. You are everything to them. If you they are not, because of how they act on you, how they treat you, the fact is people are not the same. The way we are treated, the way we are loved, the way we are educated, the way of everything varies in each and every family. That is why Islam has fixed that parens should be our priority. Because they have done so much that you can't repay them even with another new Earth. To mama and Abah, just to let you know that me myself, deah n myah love you the way you are to death even though we act so immaturely and weirdly and annoyingly and heart-breakingly and innocently and everythingly. WE LOVE YOU TWO! 

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