Flirting Muslimahs

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم ...

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته ... 

I am writing about this topic since I have experienced once or twice being flirted. As we know Muslimahs are very polite human beings. Some people interpret Muslimah as the very religious women in town and stuff. In my opinion, all Muslim women are Muslimahs and all Muslimahs should be religious ones.

To be honest, I do not really understand how Muslims should make their move upon starting a halal relationship . As a Muslimah, being in love is really something I would like to avoid since I am planning to further my studies and have my life and finance stable before I have my own family. And it is a norm when a lady starts getting hints from the guys that they like her or stuff like that. I am a lady I can accept the fact now. LOLs. I had quite a few experiences being flirted which I am not proud of but I am proud that Alhamdulillah I can gently refuse to accept. 

Some guys they think sending cute, cheezy and melty and candy text messages will impress ladies. Well as for me, I do not really know about other ladies, but as for me, the guy would make me vomit if he does so. Gedik, gelenya orang kata. So unwise.

Some guys think to have the same interest with the lady's, and to act as if they have the same interest would make the lady like him more. I really think men doing this has no stand in life. They are clueless with what they are doing.

Some guys do give cute little presents to ladies so that the ladies feel appreciated or they feel indebted. Haha. If so, I am not one of the ladies. I did not ask for any, but if you insist, why should I feel indebted?? Weirdo.

Some brave guys will confront the ladies to confess how they feel about the lady. Well what is being my question is, how can there be love when there are no relationship? Well I actually think, they are impressed about how the lady look, how the lady act and how the lady wore. That's it.

I mean as muslims we should know the boundary, we have limits between muslimiins n muslimahs so, why must you break the rule. Sometimes, when the guys attempt to call me honey, sayang, all those so called love names, I feel so insulted because I am a woman. In Islam, women are very precious. In a nutshell, to become the man of a family, what men should think of are stability in terms of finance, akhlak, job and stuffs so that he can create a beautiful family which will eventually create a beautiful bunch of community.  

So, to actually flirt a Muslimah, it is best to meet the father or the wali of the lady to carefully ask whether the lady has already have somebody on mind and then only he can proceed to the next steps. As simple as that. And if you're afraid you'll feel embarrassed if she already has somebody on mind, ask politely to keep it secret and the best is to not make it public before any relationship is created. 

As the matter of fact, Muslimahs would love to have men who protects but in the same time loves all his heart. Men n women are like invertebrates,, women are the soft part, men are the shell... =) I guess... thats's the best I can do. 
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والله علم .. 

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