I Wish for a 'Happily Ever After' Life

بسم لله الرحمن الرحيم .. 

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته.. 

It involves feelings when we talk about human being's فطرة . As to what I meant for the title, it is the nature for human beings to desire 'Happily Ever After' Life. As for Muslims, that life would be in Jannah and for sure it is not easy to achieve that Jannah since we must obey the Almighty Allah and it is very challenging yet worth it.

However today I am going to 'talk' about the on earth 'Happily Ever After' Life, referring to couple life. I don't really understand how it feels like since I have never experience one. (Puppy love isn't considered that kind of relationship, i guess so that one is excluded). Since I was in high school, love is a matter I would seriously like to get rid of and prevent.

Now that since this year I am getting 20, It is kind of complicated to explain about how I feel when I browse over the Internet and saw very happy couples getting engaged, married and stuff. Plus, I have a friend getting married too. It is not that I want to get married and have a partner right now, but it just makes me overwhelmed, I feel pathetic and it maybe is jealous. It kind of makes me emotional seeing them. But I seriously, obviously not need a partner. It is just that I feel happy for the couple and would love to feel happy as they are too. I think that makes sense. 

Yesterday, I had my aunt and uncle together with thier cute babies visiting my dad and mum. I have been admiring their 'love' life and story eversince they got married and I was 15 by that time. Yes. Too young to understand what love is but they seem to be such a sweet couple and I 'demand' to have that kind of feeling when I have one. LOLS. But seriously, who wouldn't want a happy life? whou would want a life without happiness but sorrows? =) 

As for me, pasts are good teachers no matter what classification it is, love, study, habbit, family and what not. What makes yourlife so precious and meaningful is the mistakes you commit which makes you a better you. I wouldn't want to live without mistakes because life without mistakes, eventhough we do not feel the pain, eventually the pain will be felt and the regret would become larger. Hopefully I won't happen to me. 

Last but not least, Allah has fixed everything accordingly and sequently, that everything just makes sense if we rethink when we make mistakes. Everybody has their own life and opinions about them, so as in my life, what I learnt is to make good relationship with human beings, His creatures and to Him as well. This means a lot since taking care of or relationship with them all requires good manners as taught and encouraged in Islam. والله علم .. 

Shoe of the day : 

Took from Facebook in some Page.. It is just a shoe I like =)