Please Your Parents

Bismillahirrahmaanirrahiim and Assalamualaikum~

It is a great pleasure to share what I learnt together with the siswi in a program held by the Helwi. The in charged officer to 'share' pleasant stories with us was Madam Rohayati... She is a very nice woman and I admire on how softly yet harsh the details were spoken. I purposely attach my note so I don't miss out what to share and my apology if I do.. ^_^ Also, My apology because I sketch and draft from the bottom part of the paper and from the right hand side. So I left a pretty big space in the middle. It becomes a habit I don't realize I'm doing. -_-

The main idea of the discussion was about how special women are. So she tells us about how we can be those beautiful ones to beautify Islam. =) Solah is always the key. We know ourselves it is not easy to keep ourselves kusyu' in our solah. So it is best to start very slowly but in moderate and istiqamah way ^^ And according to the phrase bellow, I'm pretty sure we can many of us can stand up to anything. Because we pray. 

Second is to be grateful of what we have and that is by appreciating the 99 asma al-husna... She recomended a 1000 times of repetition of one name per day... It's like zikir. So you will say all 99 names in approx. 3 months. Well, have I done it? hehe... Sometimes I get greed. Saying several names of His per day ^_^ Haiya.. -_-

Something very important she shared and was my concern is to pleasure our parents. Those words and advises had me burst into tears for reminding how 'bad' I am to mine. She said to Redha each and everything our parents do to ensure them the Paradise. It reminds me of my father when she said...

"Redha your parents even if they get angry to you. If they do, be pleased, keep smiling and head up because we want the Paradise for them. Be patient. Else if they are not happy with us, the Paradise are not theirs.So please our parents. " 

Like how I do, I simply get angry and keep the anger to myself and never would want to apologize even though I was the one wrong. Bad girl. So I headed home doing what she recommended. But not in tears la. I'm pretty stubborn. Something she shared with the siswi "A Solehah is better than 70 Soleh". That is something really pleasuring to hear right. But "A bad woman is worse than 1000 bad men" which is very irritating to hear and we want to avoid doing, right? Allahu akbar. May He ease our way to the Siraat Mustaqiim~

To conclude:

We should do our solah on time. Be grateful. Notice and appreciate all asma ul-husna, the beautiful Names of the Almighty God. BE NICE TO OUR PARENTS.

Allah ma'akum...