Tuesday, 27 August 2013

Modesty


Assalamualaikum wbt. Bismillah.. 

I've been thinking about what to write since I've been thinking about a lot of stuffs lately, and alhamdulillah today I wanna write about modesty. =) 


How Islam teaches us muslims about modesty? Well, there are so many deeds which shows how we can act moderate, one of them is by fasting in the month of Ramadhan. basically there are many reasons for muslims to fast in the month of Ramadhan , one of them is to experience how the unfortunate feels when they are insufficient of food and drinks while the other brothers and sisters enjoys luxury. So, indirectly, all muslims, young or old, rich or poor, as long as they are muslims, they all will be grateful for the earnings they obtain for the month or day, for sure there are several rules to be practiced during the fasting period =)

And to imply the gratefulness during Ramadhan into our daily life, we act, speak, eat and spend moderately to just have some consideration for how the unfortunate live their lives. So, when we own some luxury in life, surely we have to be more thankful to The Almighty God and we should practice amar makruf nahi mungkar better than before =) 

Spending is really an action most people cannot resist. =) Me myself too. When I see things that pleasure my eyes such as wedges, handbags and shawls, or if I get to treat my little babies, my mind won't think properly that sometimes, I can make myself eating at minimized quantity. -.-" nappeun yoja! haha... over... Astaghfirullah~ Somehow, my mom really has taught me how important it is to spend wise. So, wise spender I am... haha,, when it comes to serious matters la, but if it is about silly things, I just never think twice but just barge into them! LOL~ ish3, as what ppl say in malay language, "membazir amalan syaitan"="wasting is syaitans' deed".. =)

Therefore, that is how I shall live. Not too luxurious nor too bad. =) As for me, back up plans are very important. Also, sometimes the term "as long as you have one" is crucial... =) Like when you intend to own a car or a house, try not to choose based on it's brand or price. As long as you have one, be thankful praise be to Allah, that you have one. ^_^" Think of the long term effects too, such as what if u get bankrupt, how would you deal with the installments, or what if you die, how would ur family deal with the installments, or what if it gets stolen, how would you deal for the lost, etcetera2... =) 

All in all, try to be moderate, live like normal pple and not try to look special. Because specials are looked forward, but they are not necessarily liked. =)

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